Go figure…
01/24/02
Compliments Never Come Too Late
A swanky sassette of a girlfriend of mine was telling me about a conversation that she had with her most recent booty call lover. It was an overwhelming meeting of the mutual appreciation society.
“You know what? You’re really good.”
“No, *you* are really good.”
“Nah, you are *really* really* good.”
“Oh please, no, *YOU* are *REALLY* good.”
“Why thank you.”
“No, thank *you*”
This I found charming and giggly until a recent chat conversation I had with a former man in my life. Oddly enough, it was the last person I had sex with nearly 3 years ago.
Nice to know I made an impression.
*NOT-TELLING*: hey, there is something I just though of, which I would really like to tell you. It is posative feedback, but not something I want to talk about while at work.
minjung: what did you waaant to say to me.
*NOT-TELLING*: it was actually a compliment
*NOT-TELLING*: but I dont know if I should talk about this at work
minjung: is it a sexual thing?
*NOT-TELLING*: yeah sorta
*NOT-TELLING*: something you do extremely well
minjung: do i?
minjung: wow, it’s been near 3 years.
*NOT-TELLING*: of course
*NOT-TELLING*: you really left an impression
*NOT-TELLING*: you rock
minjung: can you be more specific?
*NOT-TELLING*: it is about your aggressiveness with something you do
minjung: hmmm
*NOT-TELLING*: something I never liked so much before, and never thought would be so good
*NOT-TELLING*: until you of course
*NOT-TELLING*: and never since then
minjung: which was what?
*NOT-TELLING*: your attack on my brown not pink
*NOT-TELLING*: as opposed to your pink not brown
minjung: nips.
*NOT-TELLING*: he heh
minjung: licking at them, nibbling, and then blowing warm air on them.
*NOT-TELLING*: sucking them
*NOT-TELLING*: with aggression
minjung: ahhhhhh
*NOT-TELLING*: whatever you were doing
*NOT-TELLING*: unbelievable
*NOT-TELLING*: never knew it could be so
minjung: maybe that’s why my friends think i’m a lesbian.
*NOT-TELLING*: you could really make some woman happy
*NOT-TELLING*: but this is so good it works for guys too
*NOT-TELLING*: unbelievable
minjung: ha ha… the last guy i did that on said it was way too intense for him.
*NOT-TELLING*: you really did it for me though
*NOT-TELLING*: amazing style
*NOT-TELLING*: thanks
*NOT-TELLING*: I meant to thank you before
*NOT-TELLING*: not until just now
minjung: ha ha ha ha ha
minjung: you are such a dork
*NOT-TELLING*: you are going to get me into trouble
*NOT-TELLING*: you rock
*NOT-TELLING*: I just wanted to let you know
*NOT-TELLING*: if someone rocks your world at something you should let them know
Huh.
Nice to hear that. *giggle*
And yeah, the most recent fellow I did that on, found it a bit, hmmm intense.
Which brings me to confess something. Not cuz I feel dirty or weird about “outing” myself about it, but it’s rather overdue to be said. There are things that I’ve come to a conclusion about recently that are a bit of a paradigm shift for me. That line between what my Dad keeps on calling me about weekly (well finding a job and getting married) and what I want (well…finding a job and getting married). His criteria is really the hard core Korean, Catholic, MD or JD or Engineer or whatever yada yada thing. Mine is a bit more lenient, though equally difficult to find. Someone spiritually & emotionally self actualized, someone with a back bone of adamantium, someone who knows what adamantium is.
And so I was seeing someone for a while before. Though we’re still good friends now, the romantic component of our interaction has been suspended. Which is fine, though on occasion at night I rather miss feeling his furry arms around me. And yeah, *gasp*, he was a white boy.
Which means that sooner or later I’m going to have to append that whole Jawbhom rant.
And announce to he world that I am rather anglo-curious. I still won’t bother with idiotic rednecks or obvious fetishists & the such, but I’ll be a might less hostile to your run of the mill white boy from the midwest from here on out.
Being myopic and exclusionary is so 2001.
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